Co-authored-by: Richard van der Hoff <1389908+richvdh@users.noreply.github.com>

When we join a room via the faster-joins mechanism, we end up with "partial
state" at some points on the event DAG. Many parts of the codebase need to
wait for the full state to load. So, we implement a mechanism to keep track of
which events have partial state, and wait for them to be fully-populated.

Fixes matrix-org/complement#330 (or it will, once we remove the old files).

It's not quite a lift-and-shift: I've also taken the opportunity to get rid of the custom CA that we used to use to sign the TLS certs, which has been superceded by the CA exposed by Complement.