Integrate knock rooms with the public rooms directory (#9359)

This PR implements the ["Changes regarding the Public Rooms Directory"](https://github.com/Sorunome/matrix-doc/blob/soru/knock/proposals/2403-knock.md#changes-regarding-the-public-rooms-directory) section of knocking MSC2403.

Specifically, it:

* Allows rooms with `join_rule` "knock" to be returned by the query behind the public rooms directory
* Adds the field `join_rule` to each room entry returned by a public rooms directory query, so clients can know whether to attempt a join or knock on a room

Based on https://github.com/matrix-org/synapse/issues/6739. Complement tests for this change: https://github.com/matrix-org/complement/pull/72