Opentracing across workers (#5771)

Propagate opentracing contexts across workers


Also includes some Convenience modifications to opentracing for servlets, notably:
- Add boolean to skip the whitelisting check on inject
  extract methods. - useful when injecting into carriers
  locally. Otherwise we'd always have to include our
  own servername and whitelist our servername
- start_active_span_from_request instead of header
- Add boolean to decide whether to extract context
  from a request to a servlet