Increase perf of read/write locks (#16149)

We do this by marking the tables as `UNLOGGED` in PostgreSQL.

changelog.d/16149.misc

+Increase performance of read/write locks.

synapse/storage/schema/main/delta/80/02_read_write_locks_unlogged.sql.postgres

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+-- Mark the worker_read_write_locks* tables as UNLOGGED, to increase
+-- performance. This means that we don't replicate the tables, and they get
+-- truncated on a crash. This is acceptable as a) in those cases it's likely
+-- that Synapse needs to be stopped/restarted anyway, and b) the locks are
+-- considered best-effort anyway.
+
+-- We need to remove and recreate the circular foreign key references, as
+-- UNLOGGED tables can't reference normal tables.
+ALTER TABLE worker_read_write_locks_mode DROP CONSTRAINT IF EXISTS worker_read_write_locks_mode_foreign;
+
+ALTER TABLE worker_read_write_locks SET UNLOGGED;
+ALTER TABLE worker_read_write_locks_mode SET UNLOGGED;
+
+ALTER TABLE worker_read_write_locks_mode ADD CONSTRAINT worker_read_write_locks_mode_foreign
+    FOREIGN KEY (lock_name, lock_key, token) REFERENCES worker_read_write_locks(lock_name, lock_key, token) DEFERRABLE INITIALLY DEFERRED;