Add experimental support for MSC4222 (#17888)

Basically, if the client sets a special query param on `/sync` v2
instead of responding with `state` at the *start* of the timeline, we
instead respond with `state_after` at the *end* of the timeline.

We do this by using the `current_state_delta_stream` table, which is
actually reliable, rather than messing around with "state at" points on
the timeline.

c.f. MSC4222