Refactor matrixfederationclient to fix logging (#3906)

We want to wait until we have read the response body before we log the request
as complete, otherwise a confusing thing happens where the request appears to
have completed, but we later fail it.

To do this, we factor the salient details of a request out to a separate
object, which can then keep track of the txn_id, so that it can be logged.