Enable Faster Remote Room Joins against worker-mode Synapse. (#14752)

* Enable Complement tests for Faster Remote Room Joins on worker-mode

* (dangerous) Add an override to allow Complement to use FRRJ under workers

* Newsfile

Signed-off-by: Olivier Wilkinson (reivilibre) <oliverw@matrix.org>

* Fix race where we didn't send out replication notification

* MORE HACKS

* Fix get_un_partial_stated_rooms_token to take instance_name

* Fix bad merge

* Remove warning

* Correctly advance un_partial_stated_room_stream

* Fix merge

* Add another notify_replication

* Fixups

* Create a separate ReplicationNotifier

* Fix test

* Fix portdb

* Create a separate ReplicationNotifier

* Fix test

* Fix portdb

* Fix presence test

* Newsfile

* Apply suggestions from code review

* Update changelog.d/14752.misc

Co-authored-by: Erik Johnston <erik@matrix.org>

* lint

Signed-off-by: Olivier Wilkinson (reivilibre) <oliverw@matrix.org>
Co-authored-by: Erik Johnston <erik@matrix.org>