Add a class UnpersistedEventContext to allow for the batching up of storing state groups (#14675)

* add class UnpersistedEventContext

* modify create new client event to create unpersistedeventcontexts

* persist event contexts after creation

* fix tests to persist unpersisted event contexts

* cleanup

* misc lints + cleanup

* changelog + fix comments

* lints

* fix batch insertion?

* reduce redundant calculation

* add unpersisted event classes

* rework compute_event_context, split into function that returns unpersisted event context and then persists it

* use calculate_context_info to create unpersisted event contexts

* update typing

* $%#^&*

* black

* fix comments and consolidate classes, use attr.s for class

* requested changes

* lint

* requested changes

* requested changes

* refactor to be stupidly explicit

* clearer renaming and flow

* make partial state non-optional

* update docstrings

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Co-authored-by: Erik Johnston <erik@matrix.org>