Filter out rooms from the room directory being served to other homeservers when those rooms block that homeserver by their Access Control Lists. (#16759)

The idea here being that the directory server shouldn't advertise rooms
to a requesting server is the requesting server would not be allowed to
join or participate in the room.

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Original commit schedule, with full messages:

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Pass `from_federation_origin` down into room list retrieval code 

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Don't cache /publicRooms response for inbound federated requests 

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fixup! Don't cache /publicRooms response for inbound federated requests 

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Cap the number of /publicRooms entries to 100 

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Simplify code now that you can't request unlimited rooms 

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Filter out rooms from federated requests that don't have the correct ACL

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Request a handful more when filtering ACLs so that we can try to avoid
shortchanging the requester

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Signed-off-by: Olivier Wilkinson (reivilibre) <oliverw@matrix.org>