diff --git a/changelog.d/5801.misc b/changelog.d/5801.misc
index e6ecb475d9c638db4abbaf127e70d9e8ed2e4d9d..e19854de822f9ea21fa403948e0b9617e667d800 100644
--- a/changelog.d/5801.misc
+++ b/changelog.d/5801.misc
@@ -1 +1 @@
-Don't allow clients to send tombstone events that reference the room its sent in.
+Don't allow clients to send tombstone events that reference the room it's sent in.
diff --git a/synapse/events/validator.py b/synapse/events/validator.py
index 29f99361c0826b97fefbeeff035bb3cc82738e74..6374dd067d0289db1afca5ffcf579a63cbb1154e 100644
--- a/synapse/events/validator.py
+++ b/synapse/events/validator.py
@@ -111,7 +111,9 @@ class EventValidator(object):
                 raise SynapseError(400, "Content has no replacement_room key")
 
             if event.content["replacement_room"] == event.room_id:
-                raise SynapseError(400, "Tombstone cannot reference itself")
+                raise SynapseError(
+                    400, "Tombstone cannot reference the room it was sent in"
+                )
 
     def _ensure_strings(self, d, keys):
         for s in keys: